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  1. I’m checking the “We had an affair” box but I can’t remember the exact dates. Will you still respond in 30 seconds?

  2. Met someone at a conference. We also shared birthplace and work background. We connected on LinkedIn after an interesting discussion. Person said we should connect some time. I reached out via LinkedIn message a few days later, and get a link back to that person’s Calendly scheduler!


    1. That’s why I’m torn about the whole Calendly thing. On the one hand, for the person who sent you the link, it makes their scheduling more efficient. What’s happening at 10am? Oh, I have a conversation with Bob. And for business conversations it feels very apropo. But in cases like this it feels impersonal and offputting. So don’t take it personally.

      1. Joel Right. It was very impersonal response to a personal connection. I’d understand if it was about business and that was the nature of our initial connection – Calendly would be perfect.

        This is a person who provides consulting to others on using social media. So, surprise, and disappointment is my reaction. I never did “book” our casual conversation.